Category: Parenting Parables

  • The Let Them Theory: Mindset and Emotional Authority (Part 4)

    The emotional freedom we find in honoring the agency of others is deeply tied to the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Relying on Him provides the very strength we need to maintain these difficult, and for many of us, new boundaries. When we look at 2 Nephi 2:26, we read that we are created to “act…

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  • The Let Them Theory: Honoring Agency Through Charity (Part 3)

    Another striking line from the book discusses how we choose to show up for our loved ones. “You get to choose what kind of friend, loved one, or family member you get to be.” This encapsulates the shift from trying to control others to taking ownership of your own actions and emotions. When you stop…

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  • The Let Them Theory: The Deliberate Strength of Peace (Part 2)

    When we think of control, we can easily picture dominance or the ability to bend situations to our will. However, true internal control looks completely different. While reviewing my notes on the Let Them theory, I wrote down a profound truth about choosing peace. It is not weakness; it is the ultimate form of control.…

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  • The Let Them Theory: Choosing Peace Over Control (Part 1)

    I have spent more time than I care to admit trying to manage the complex dynamics within my own extended family. Whether it is navigating tensions with siblings or trying to smooth over misunderstandings with in-laws, the mental load of attempting to keep the peace can be exhausting. I’ve poured my energy into fixing situations…

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  • Returning to the Standard

    In the previous three posts, I have explored the spiritual dangers of abandoning our foundation. We looked at the invisible drift that pulls us away from Christ. We discussed the moment of exchange when cultural faith proves bankrupt. We examined the exhausting spiritual inflation that comes from relying on our own energy. Now we reach…

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  • The Cost of Religious Busyness

    When an economy suffers from inflation, the currency loses its purchasing power. To buy the exact same loaf of bread, you have to spend more money. People find themselves working longer hours just to maintain their standard of living. The effort increases, but the return diminishes. It is an exhausting cycle. This exact phenomenon happens…

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  • The Moment of Exchange

    In the financial world, paper money works perfectly fine when the economy is calm. People trade it back and forth without thinking twice. But when a severe crisis hits, people suddenly want real assets. They rush to the bank to exchange their paper for something of actual substance. If the bank does not have the…

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  • The Invisible Drift

    In my previous post, I introduced the idea of the “Gold Standard of the Gospel.” I hypothesized what happens when our faith becomes untethered from Jesus Christ and starts floating like a fiat currency, unbacked by a standard like gold. Now, I want to look at exactly how that unmooring happens. It is rarely a…

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  • The Gold Standard of the Gospel

    Recently, I picked up a book by Saifedean Ammous about Bitcoin (Audible Link). I wasn’t expecting a lesson on the historical shift away from the gold standard. That surprise insight and lesson prompted me to reflect on the similarities of the Gold Standard to our spiritual lives, a connection I had previously never imagined. Ammous…

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